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It may seem to you that women are always asking for more
foreplay, and you don’t know what she wants. There are a lot of things
you can do to enhance your foreplay, but a basic principle is to mix it
up. Variety is an essential ingredient to keeping foreplay exciting and
stimulating.
Foreplay Tricks to Try
You probably have tried the basics – touching and kissing
her neck, breasts, and back. So how do you spice it up?
- Sensual massage. Massage is a great way
to relax your partner and get her in the mood. Add a scented massage
oil, and you may just be getting things wet for what comes next.
- Blindfold her. Shutting off the sense of
sight enhances anticipation during foreplay. Improvise a blindfold
using a tie or other fabric lying around, and begin touching your
partner with your fingertips along the neckline, back, and chest.
- Dirty talk. Whisper to your partner all
the things you want to do to her. But don’t do them . . . yet. Take
your time, talk about what turns you on, and tell her how hot she is.
- Take off her clothes slowly. Begin your
foreplay with all of your clothes on. Touching and rubbing over the
clothes will make her anxious to get them off. Take control and
take off her clothes slowly. This will heighten her anticipation and
excite her.
- Change the pace. Slow and gentle is a
pretty good rule for pacing during foreplay, however it is also
exciting when the pace changes. For example, while you may touch her
breasts gently and slowly, kiss her next urgently and a little roughly.
Keep her on her toes and looking forward to what you’ll do next.
Remember, foreplay is about building the anticipation and intensity in your sex life. Instead of thinking about foreplay as a chore, consider all the ways more foreplay can add variety and excitement to your sex play.
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