What happens when you and your mate prefer two different sex positions? Is there a happy compromise?
I’ve always been a main-stay kind of girl, and for those of you who don’t know what that means, it simply means that I’m not a fan of sleeping with more than one man in the same timeframe. I’ve always said I’d be a horrible cheater because one man drives me crazy enough, and thus far I’ve held true to that. I am also a very honest and open person. I will tell anyone what they want to know; and while this hasn’t always worked out for me, it is that very part of me that pays the bills so I guess I can’t complain.
So, why do I mention this? Well, because through my own honesty and the curiosity of my main-stay, we realized that we favor two completely different sex positions. I prefer woman on top, mainly because being in control is an incredible experience for me and makes it easier for me to orgasm. He prefers doggy style, preferably bending his partner over a bed or couch. At first, I thought to myself: Wow, what a bummer; but then I realized how awesome this could be.
You see, for the most part, I’m totally unbiased about which sex position I am rolled into, though I do enjoy keeping it interesting and changing it up during intercourse. However, I did take a minute to rethink my sexual history and realized that the majority of the men I’ve been with in the past enjoyed woman on top the most. Perhaps that pattern helped to influence my favorite sex position.
So, this new partner whose favorite position is totally different, well… it’s exciting. I mean, when he bends me over whichever piece of furniture he chooses, how sexy am I going to feel? The second this happens, it will cross my mind that this is his favorite and I know that it will be a major turn-on to me. Honestly, I can’t wait to really experiment with him and see if anything changes.
So I guess different preferences can have a happy ending after all.
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” …The second this happens, it will cross my mind that this is his favorite and I know that it will be a major turn-on to me.”
I think this is the most important line within this article;
What I’ve learned as a young adult and in speaking to close friends is that we WANT to please our partners, it’s what turns us on the most. I’m learning that more and more people are being open and honest about their sexual preferences but the underlying fact is that they’ll do whatever is turning their partner on, to make sure they’re enjoying themselves.
This article is a good start to understanding that much!
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