One of my best friends swears that you can tell how good a man will be in bed by how well he dances. While I don’t have the data to back up her theory, I do think there is some merit to it. Consider what it takes to get out on the dance floor: confidence, sensuality, coordination, rhythm, and the willingness to be a little silly. All the perfect characteristics of a great lover.
Dancing is good foreplay because it gets the blood pumping, the endorphins flowing, and the body moving. Whether you’re a good or bad dancer, once you let yourself go, it’s hard not to feel sexy dancing to some Lil’ Wayne. Add in the sensuality, the body contact, and the sexy visuals, and dancing becomes perfect foreplay.
If you’re on a date, dancing is a way to break the ice that conversation over coffee can’t achieve. You get to see another more physical, more vulnerable, and more fun side of the person you’re with, and you get to make body contact and check out the chemistry between you.
If you’re in a couple, going out for a night of dancing is a great way to break the routine and get out of your heads. Dancing is a way to engage with each other that is purely physical, and you get to watch each other and touch each other in ways outside of your usual foreplay routine. Plus, it’s always a little flattering to see someone else checking out your partner.
So if you’re looking for a good foreplay trick this weekend, suggest a night of dancing, or just turn up your ipod in your living room and get your groove on. A little dirty dancing just might get you in the mood for the horizontal tango.
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2 comments ↓
It’s totally true-
If a guy can follow your rhythm on the dance floor he can do so in the bedroom and nothing is sexier than a man that is confident enough to follow your lead when it’s important!
I tend to agree:) But even if one of you has two left feet, there’s still something fun about letting go and dancing that’s similar to great sex.
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